Tuesday, February 26, 2008

another story...

this was one my experience...story ni macam kat dalam tv je..rupa2nya memang ade terjadi in reality...
one day in ward 8B (lady ward)it was a peaceful day and morning..and as usual i need to do morning round...furthermore it was weekend day..so really calm and peaceful
i started to do round from one to another patient..
then came to one lady..
after i read about the file of the patient..then i saw her face...i smiled and then started asking her bout her condition..."makcik,macam mana hari ni..sakit lagi ke dada tu...atau dah ok skit?.."then she said "sakit lagi.."then i looked at her.."selalu jugak makcik sakit ye..tapi ECG ok je...makcik selalu masuk wad ye.."she nodded..."sakit sangat la nak..kat rumah tu kalau sakit bukan ade yang nak jaga..ade anak pun susah..." i looked at her again..there was something she tried to tell..then.."betul ke makcik ni sakit jantung ni..sebab cara makcik sakit macam bukan sakit jantung ye..lagipun biasa nya pempuan jarang kena serangan jantung"...hm..then she started to cry..she said.."lebih baik makcik duk kat hospital..sekurang2nya ade yg jaga makan makcik..duduk kat umah tuh..macam duduk kat neraka..."...i asked again.."makcik duduk ngan sapa?..."makcik dulu ade anak pempuan yg jaga makcik..dia cacat..walaupun dia cacat dia jaga makcik dgn elok..sekarang dia pun sakit juga..macam mana dia nak jaga makcik..jadi makcik tinggal dgn anak pempuan makcik satu lagi...tapi yang ni, doktor..Allah saja yang tahu.."that makcik started to cry while holding my hands..."makcik tak ampun dia dunia akhirat..biar dia jadi anak derhaka...makcik takkan maafkan dia...".. i was really shocked...but i tried to calm down her.."tenang makcik...jangan cakap macam tuh..dia anak makcik..takkan makcik sanggup tengok dia masuk neraka...may be dia tak sengaja buat kat makcik..dia ade masalah ke?mana tahu kan??....hoping that she realised what she said..."apa dia dah buat makcik?".."dia buat macam2..dia tak bagi makan..kalau bagi makan nasi je...suruh makcik buat kije tu kije ni..masak sendiri..tido pun atas lantai je..cakap dgn suara yg tinggi..menyumpah..."...ya ALLAH..ade ke org macam ni....ish..biar benar makcik ni..ke nak reka cerita...?
so..i really wanted to meet with her daughter...
one day..i met her again with her daughter..so i asked er daughter about patient at home..the moment she talked then i knew she could be like her mum told me...made me realised..what made she behaved like that to her mum...didnt she think that is one of dosa besar...
nauzubillah...minta dijauhkan Allah menjadi anak yang derhaka...
tahukah dia mak dia tak maafkan dia dunia akhirat...
semoga dia sedar apa yg telah dia buat...dan doa utk kita sendiri semoga berusaha menjadi anak yg baik..

another story chinese lady with her son..she is a christian..came for follow up for her diabetic..caming with her son..i could remember her before..last visit she came with her hubby but today with her son..so, son told me that his father just died recently...so, i started consult her and at the same time also explained to her son..what touched my feeling was..the way the son treated his mother..he is nice but the words about his mother not nice,.."doctor, jangan peduli sangat sama dia..dia sudah nyanyuk ,sudah tak betul.."sambil tangan dia tunjuk kat kepala..then the mother marah .."doktor, u see ah..ade anak pun buat sakit hati saja..mengandung sembilan bulan,susah jaga masa kecik..ini saja balasan dia bagi..."auntie cakap dalam pelat melayu...
hmm...me myself tgk je kat anak dia dan pesakit tuh...tak tahu nak cakap apa...it's all about humanity...it's not only about religious...
for me..eventhough betul la mak dia nyanyuk, tak payah la cakap macam tu depan dia...dia ade hati dan perasaan..lebih2 lagi dia adalah ibu yang mengandung dan membesarkan kita.sesiapa diantara kita yg dah ade pengalaman mengandung dan melahirkan tahu la macam mana seksanya nak lahirkan seorg anak..tuptup..bila dah besar cakap macam tuh..alangkah kecilnya hati seorg ibu...

okla..anyhing to share..?

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